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  • 24-10-2009 8:19pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    hey, i need a bit of help here this is the first time ive posted anything like this on a site like this!

    so ive been seeing my grilfriend for less than a year but im madly in love with her (i cant stress that enough). before we met i had a somewhat alternative outlook on life, i was open minded and willing to try new things. i had started wondering if i was bi-sexual, so i fished around some sites and chatted away to some guys through e-mail and txts, i had even arranged to meet up with a couple but at the last minute i cancelled(i just really didnt want to meet up ALL that much). this had gone on into our relationship up to about 2 months ago when i decided i wasnt actually interested in meeting anyone else at all. my gf went through my phone and found these txts, needless to say she is deeply upset. i had gone as far as arranging dates and times for meets but either didnt turn up or made a lame excuse.she has seen all these txts.

    i couldnt bare to loose her and all i want to do is let her know nothing happened i have never cheathed on her. its been hard for me having these feelings and not having anyone to turn to but i cant really be selfish right now, i cant imagine how she is feeling.

    any advice or comments would be appreciated.


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  • #2
    Loopsie
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 198 ✭✭Loopsie


    you know what you did was so so wrong. I know how she feels. All you can do is come COMPLETELY clean with her and beg her for another chance, that call is up to her OP
    Best of luck
    L :)


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    thanks for your help/ i know what i did was wrong, i just have to wait and see if she gets back to me anytime soon!!!


  • #4
    Faith
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 30,661 Mod ✭✭✭✭Faith


    Bisexuality does not mean that you can have a boyfriend and a girlfriend at the same time. When you started going out with your girlfriend, you should have stopped contacting men. Regardless of any confusion about your sexuality, when you're in a commited relationship, you don't seek out relationships with other people. You may not have actually cheated on her, but from her POV, you may as well have. You actually went so far as to arrange dates! Not going on them doesn't put you in a better position. How would you feel if your girlfriend had been repeatedly arranging dates with other people while with you? You've shown a complete lack of respect for her, and for your relationship. Your girlfriend has every right to be furious with you and to break up with you. There is no excuse for your behaviour tbh. Nothing you say to her can make the situation alright. You've made your bed, now you have to lie in it.


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