Girlfriends best friend cheating

LegacyUser

So, basically my girlfriends best friend is cheating on her fella, the problem I have with it is that she has a baby with this guy, they are living together and he provides her with a house, money, car, absolutly everything. I know she is cheating because my girlfriend told me all the details. Get this. On Monday she slept with a guy, on wednesday she slept with that guys friend and now intends to be fu£k buds with him, oh and i almost forgot i am mates with the poor fella who provides this bit*h with everything and i cant say a fcukin word about it becuse it will all point back to my girlfriend because she is the only one who 'Knows'. What do I do?

e04bf099

that is unbelievable!

Well talk to your girlfriend. If you really can't stand staying stum (I couldn't) then express that vehemently to her and hope she understands. If she says no then, well figure out your gf's motivations for staying stum and press her, but only to the point that makes you comfortable. The fact that she told you sounds to me that she has issues with it also, and may want you to talk her into it, because she is struggling between her loyalty to her friend and her moral obligation to the child and your friend. But if it doesn't pan out like this, don't go on a crusade. Don't jeopardise the trust your gf has in you, since she confided in you and may not want it to go any further.

But yeah, what a B&$%H!

Loopsie

I would ask your girlfriend straight out does she agree with what her friend is doing? knowing she will say no then approach the subject of why she thinks its ok for her to keep quiet about this. Tell her how uncomfortable you feel knowing this about what her friend is doing to her oh.
Does she really want to mixed up with a girl like that??

scanlas

It would make you wonder if the baby is even his.

MIN2511

How is this your business?

If she wants to cheat on her bf, it's her perrogative.
I'd like to know what your gf thinks of her cheating, i suppose if they are still friends means she doesn't see anything wrong with it.

That_Guy

MIN2511 wrote: »

How is this your business?

If she wants to cheat on her bf, it's her perrogative.
I'd like to know what your gf thinks of her cheating, i suppose if they are still friends means she doesn't see anything wrong with it.

The OP said that he was a friend of the victim in this case.
Does he suspect anything OP? Has he ever mentioned to you that he may suspect her or something?

If it was my friend I'd have to say something to him. I'd hate to be in the dark over something like this and be taken for an absoulute mug.

I know your gf is friends with this cheating bitch (sorry but no other words to describe her really) but I think you should both talk to her and tell her to cop the fcuk on or leave this chap alone.

She's milking this guy for far too long and I think it has to stop now. Very unfair.

MIN2511

That_Guy wrote: »

The OP said that he was a friend of the victim in this case.
Does he suspect anything OP? Has he ever mentioned to you that he may suspect her or something?

If it was my friend I'd have to say something to him. I'd hate to be in the dark over something like this and be taken for an absoulute mug.

I know your gf is friends with this cheating bitch (sorry but no other words to describe her really) but I think you should both talk to her and tell her to cop the fcuk on or leave this chap alone.

She's milking this guy for far too long and I think it has to stop now. Very unfair.

I saw that, he probably became mates because their respective gf's are best mates....

I still don't think it's his business....

Sometimes people have to find things out themselves

LegacyUser

I totally and utterly reject that opinion. The OP's good friend is involved. It most certainly IS his business.

If I was in the boyfriend's place and my lady was doing this to me and my friend knew but elected not to tell me I wouldn't think much of him as a friend.

he needs to be informed.

mood

It's a catch 22. If you tell the guy you could be hated for telling. If you don't you will be hated for not telling. I have seen this happen a few times! I really don't understand it. Why not hate the person who cheated???