Age gap

LegacyUser

im 19 and im texting a single 32 year old that has kids..basically weve been texting awile and shes suggesting meeting up for no strings sex...should i go for it?..Age gap is worrying me though

LegacyUser

Some of my best sexual experiences I ever had were with this cracking 31 year old woman when I was 18. Definitely go for it, just dont get attached at the end of the day the gap is too big for an actual relationship! Enjoy buddy.

minidazzler

Put it this way (Stolen from a Poster in TLL but paraphrased.)

Your penis doesn't do maths.

If you are attracted to her, and think you could handle and not get emotionally involved then go for it.

It will be a learning experience for you. If I were you, I would go for it in a heartbeat.

G-Money

You are so lucky.

You should definitely go for it.

G86

Go for it!!!!:D

Colonel_McCoy

Go for it but dont get emotionally attached

wasper

confused?? wrote: »

im 19 and im texting a single 32 year old that has kids..basically weve been texting awile and shes suggesting meeting up for no strings sex...should i go for it?..Age gap is worrying me though

Go for it, but be be careful not to make a baby & get stuck with this woman. Even if she says she is on the pill wear a condom.

krudler

wasper wrote: »

Go for it, but be be careful not to make a baby & get stuck with this woman. Even if she says she is on the pill wear a condom.

QFT, as long as you're both in it for the same reason, go for it, nothing wrong with having a cougar lusting after ya:D

magneticimpulse

hmmm im 28 i wonder if i be going for 19 yr olds when im 32? i met a 20 yr old recently (as a friend) who was more mature then alot of over 30s. i can see the appeal. you prob dont have any relationship baggage which goes with older aged people and shes tied down with kids and wants a bit of fun.

like other posters say, dont get attached, wear a condom even if she on pill. just have fun and enjoy it.

Hman09

I agree with above posters. On a side note...Go on you legend!:D

LegacyUser

right im gonna go for this..meeting her tommorow night for few drinks then back to hers!

jellyboy

Dont do it....think of the problems it will cause....if you want i can speak to her and give her a piece of my body:D........ enjoy

LegacyUser

went for this last night...SO GLAD I DID was unbelievable experience..older women are so much more fun when i was going away this morning she kissed me and goes gimme a text when your horny:P

magneticimpulse

confused?? wrote: »

went for this last night...SO GLAD I DID was unbelievable experience..older women are so much more fun when i was going away this morning she kissed me and goes gimme a text when your horny:P

i wouldnt say older women are so much fun, its more depends on the person rather than age. no matter what a persons age, people can find differences and similarities that draw them together

glad you had a good time anyway

CDfm

The attraction of an older woman is that she is sexual available in a way that someone your own age might not be. The other part though is she is almost old enough to be your Mum.

So if you do get into a relationship - you might get a slagging from your friends.

I know a guy who married an older woman and has been very happy for years. Johnny Rotten did too. So it might be your thing.

minidazzler

confused?? wrote: »

went for this last night...SO GLAD I DID was unbelievable experience..older women are so much more fun when i was going away this morning she kissed me and goes gimme a text when your horny:P

Nice one!!! Lucky barsteward you are!!!

CDfm wrote: »

The attraction of an older woman is that she is sexual available in a way that someone your own age might not be. The other part though is she is almost old enough to be your Mum.

So if you do get into a relationship - you might get a slagging from your friends.

I know a guy who married an older woman and has been very happy for years. Johnny Rotten did too. So it might be your thing.

It doesn't sound like the lovey dovey type of relationship to me!!!

CDfm

minidazzler wrote: »

It doesn't sound like the lovey dovey type of relationship to me!!!

Hey - what if the OP likes her and sees a future in the relationship.

minidazzler

CDfm wrote: »

Hey - what if the OP likes her and sees a future in the relationship.

Could happen sure, but doesn't exactly sound like that to me.

"gimme a text when your horny" gives me the impression is strictly a sex situation.

OP learn what you can! That is where older women are best....or so I have heard.

magneticimpulse

i would be an older woman in this case, but there's 18 year olds out there that have had more sex than me. so just cos we old, doesnt mean we more experienced. i might have more knowledge or what not to do in relationships but i could definitely do with the more sex bit for sure

LordDorington

19 year old guy and 26 year old woman?

Silverfish

Please don't drag up old threads, especially if you have nothing helpful to add. Thank you.