Is he too full on??

LegacyUser

Hey all,

I met a guy last week in Dublin when I was out. We had fun, and were chatting for hours. He came home with me that night. We fooled around a bit but didn't have sex. The next morning he left and text within two hours saying that he had a great time and asked me to go out with him that night, which I thought was very quick but I agreed.
We had a great time and got on well. He stayed again that night. He left the next morning and again text me asking me to hang out with him that night within a few minutes of leaving! He seems shy and embarrassed to tell me what a great time he had to my face. This time I declined and said that I would see him sometime next week.
He has been texting me since calling me his lady and saying how much he is looking forward to seeing me next week and wondering what 'we' should do for halloween (we have only been on one date!!).
I do like this guy, but I think that maybe he is coming on too strong?? He is also a bit older than me..Im 21 he's 29..

Im a bit confused here, I'd love your opinions!
Thanks!

minidazzler

Yeah, I think he is coming on WAY to strong. Just tell him straight out you think things should move slower. Not necessarily in the bedroom, but in relationship territory!!

LegacyUser

minidazzler wrote: »

Yeah, I think he is coming on WAY to strong. Just tell him straight out you think things should move slower. Not necessarily in the bedroom, but in relationship territory!!

Don't necessarily agree..he likes you..you clearly like him...where is there a rule that states how often you should see him or how quickly this should go...just do whatever YOU feel comfortable with...

The fact you posted here indicates that you may not be comfortable with things moving quickly..if so slow it down..however if it's cos you think it's quick by others standards then just go for it....

Entirely your call.........best of luck with it...

Peggypeg

Yeah i would agree. Tell him out straight I'd say. The fact he called you his lady so soon would give me the creeps a little too.

Madame Razz

See, if you liked him, none of this would be'creeping' you out OP, but you obvioulsy seem unsure. There's nothing wrong with a man indicating what he wants, and in many ways it makes a refreshing change, but if you're not happy with that then you're obviously not all that keen on him, so it's probably best to cut him loose at this stage rather than stringing him along tbh.

Colonel_McCoy

he is coming on way too strong especially since he is calling you his lady!

you need to tell him to lean back. if you like him meet him once\twice a week and only text to arrange something nothing else i.e. no chatting over text,

MIN2511

It seems like you have an idea of how a relationship should be, life isn't a straight line.
Rules are meant to be broken. Buttom line is are you enjoying this attention?

You have to make up your mind, enjoy it while it lasts and if it doesn't-there are many fishes in the sea!