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Finding it hard

  • 23-10-2009 8:34pm
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    LegacyUser
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    Need to just vent here so bare with me,

    Going out with my bf for two years now and things have become serious, we have hurt eachother in the past but have overcome these hurdles to be looking towards the future. He has recently moved to england to pursue a college opportunity that wasnt available here. A big problem with our relationship is he doesnt talk, if he is down or worried he blocks everything including me, this leads me isolated and worried. Given our past and how we have hurt eachother I can only think back to times he has hurt me when he shuts me out when he has an 'epsiode'. This is because I can never seem to really find out what is wrong, if i do try to help or be supportive or inquisitive it ends up in an arguement and he usually makes me feel really guilty for trying to help him out as he is prefers to clam up.


    Where the real problem lies, is now that he is in england its even hared to try and talk to him at times when he is low or something is getting to him because he can just ignore my calls or texts. We do get to see eachother every three weeks or so and therefore its not completely a long distance relationship however i'm trying my best to move over and doing all i can to make it possible but im worried im fighting a loosing battle and will never be able to fully communicate with him and therefore be left feel isolated like this on regualr occasions. Its driving me nuts and just dont know what to do. it really frustrates me and makes me anxious and worried.

    Can anyone relate to this or offer some constructive advice?

    Thanks in advance.


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