Another girl meets boy issue!

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Hey all,

Ok, this could be a long one! so about four months ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of a year. When I say "broke up", it's not quite that simple (is it ever?). He decided he wanted to take a break. I thought that if he didn't want to be with me, I wasn't going to hang around, so I decided instead of having a break, we should break up. I was very very upset for a long time, mostly because I really didn't understand why he didn't want to be with me.

About a month after we broke up, I slept with him, I had had a bit too much to drink, he texted, I went to his house. It wasn't a good idea. I heard nothing from him after that until about 5 weeks ago, he started texting one Saturday night, I ignored him for the most part, went out and met a new boy. This new boy was lovely, the first person I kissed etc. He lives in Dublin and went home on Sunday, he texted me on Monday afternoon and everyday that week. When he left me on Sunday morning (we were bold but not very bold if you know what I mean?!), he said he'd be around again in about 4 weeks and asked me to meet up. I said I'd love to.

That was about 5 weeks ago. We texted for about 2 weeks and since then I've heard nothing from him. He seemed like a really nice guy, very different from my last boyfriend. I'm thinking of texting him again cos I really would like to see him.

My question is this, he hasn't texted for 3 weeks, or made any effort to come see me or to meet up again. Would it be weird to text him? is he just not that into me?!

At the back of my mind, I feel like I miss my ex, he texted me last weekend asking me did I miss him, I didn't text him back. I definitely miss being in a relationship but I couldn't/shouldn't go back to the relationship the way it was. My best friend has just met a guy she's mad about and I'm seriously jealous (I feel like a horrible, nasty person for feeling jealous too). Should I just leave it for a while and concentrate on being single?

I know this isn't a major problem in the grand scheme of things, and after reading through it, I feel like maybe I don't need to post because I've answered my own questions. Feel free to tell me to cop on to myself!

Sorry, this should probably be in "relationship issues"

minidazzler

Text him, once and once only. If he doesn't reply he is no longer interested so I would say just let this one slide.

Why concentrate on being single? Be on the lookout if you want to be!!!

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In My Opinion: "take a break" = "I want to keep my options with you open so I won't say break up" or "I haven't got the balls to say break up". Applicable to men and women.