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Caught in the middle

  • 20-10-2009 5:30pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Up to the present, I have never really had a boyfriend, I have been with a few ppl but nothin major, I really would like a relationship but when it comes to it, I get terrified and back down. At the moment, I have two prospective partners, both are my friends. the first guy I met 2 years ago and although we had instant chemistry nothin ever came of it. I stll feel the chemistry and in recent months things have been heating up the intensity has increased so much so that when we are together things almost happen, the reason for almost is that he is not sure if he's straight. the second guy I have known since primary school but have gotten close over the past few months due to our groups of friends going out together more often, he is a kind sweet guy but there is nothing there e.g no chemistry. I feel like im going around in circles with this, and I apologise if the above is a bit sketchy but it is the best I can come up with.


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  • #2
    dsmythy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,560 ✭✭✭✭dsmythy


    I'd imagine the guy with whom you have chemistry is the one you should have a shot at. Why would you get with someone with whom you have no chemistry?


  • #3
    Sephiroth_dude
    Moderators, Computer Games Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 81,101 Mod ✭✭✭✭Sephiroth_dude


    Go for the guy you have chemistry with,I doubt it would work out with the other guy if theres no chemistry.


  • #4
    minidazzler
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,650 ✭✭✭✭minidazzler


    If I were in your position I wouldn't go for either of them. More hassle than it's worth really.

    One guy if you get with him he might decide he likes guys. If he does this after you have sex with him, you might wrongly blame yourself, it's happened lots of people before and could happen to you.

    The Other guy, you have no chemistry, it won't appear over night.


    Have you done anything with the second guy? You didn't make that clear?


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