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He's just not that into you?

  • 14-10-2009 1:45pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    If you are seeing a guy for a few weeks and he says that he wants nothing serious but wants to still see you etc does that mean that he is just not that into you? As in if he really liked you wouldn't he just be with you and see how things progressed?


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  • #2
    ash23
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,791 ✭✭✭ash23


    It can be said for a number of reasons....he doesn't like you, he's moving away, he's married, he has committment issues, he's a time traveller....

    But it only means one thing.....he doesn't want anything serious.

    You can analyse all you want but he is saying what he means.
    Up to you what you do with that.


  • #3
    Wibbs
    Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,217 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    Agreed. It's the general female version of friendzone for men. Bonkzone. The translation of "he wants nothing serious but wants to still see you" = "I want nothing serious, I don't fancy you enough for that, but is it OK if we pass the time and have snogs/sex".

    Like I would say to a man in friendzone, I say the same to you; the other person doesn't want what you want. You want the full package(or at least thats my impression), he wants part of the package. Probably the sexy time. That's not enough, so scrape him off and find someone who is willing to share the full package with you.

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  • #4
    TheInquisitor
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,530 ✭✭✭TheInquisitor


    **** buddies is what he wants .Simple as


  • #5
    dublingal80
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,540 ✭✭✭dublingal80


    ohidontknow wrote: »
    If you are seeing a guy for a few weeks and he says that he wants nothing serious but wants to still see you etc does that mean that he is just not that into you? As in if he really liked you wouldn't he just be with you and see how things progressed?


    it means exactly what it says on the tin.

    he doesnt want a girlfriend. he doesnt want a committment. he wants someone to kiss etc and someone to hang out with. end off.
    stop thinking of the future... he isnt looking for anything!!


  • #6
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Yeah that's what i thought. I told him that it wasn't going to work for me anymore. I wasn't looking for anything serious because we don't live in the same area but we were spending more time together & I knew that I would end up getting more involved.


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