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Getting back together?

  • 13-10-2009 7:39pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Broke up with my OH a few months back. We were together about 6 months but ended it because I didn't have feelings for him.

    I've see him often often enough over the last while and although I didn't initially think it, I'm beginning to miss being with him and think I might be more emotionally involved than I thought at the time.

    Is this common? And if so might it just a case of kidding myself it'd be better next time?


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  • #2
    Beruthiel
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,361 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    in2minds wrote: »
    I didn't have feelings for him.

    Why would that have changed?


  • #3
    Wibbs
    Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,285 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    Possible it has changed. Not unheard off. Sometimes absence does make the heart grow fonder, or people see what they're missing. Best to make sure and defo make sure it's not just loneliness and a social need for a partner sparking the urge.

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



  • #4
    hollis12
    Closed Accounts Posts: 176 ✭✭hollis12


    well did you not have feelings for him for six months? what made you get with him initially can you remember that?


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    well yea it can happen we dont know what we have till its gone, but may i ask does he want to get back together?


  • #6
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I'm questioning whether I was wrong in thinking I hadn't feelings for him. I wouldn't say it would change much but as Wibbs says it be a case of loneliness.

    I couldn't say for sure whether he'd wanna try again as we haven't talked about it but he's been txting me often enough asking how I am and that.

    I realise I'd have to be sure of the situation in order to go back...


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