Irrational or not?

LegacyUser

I have a bit of a dilema... and one that could seem unusual for a guy. There's this girl I know, and she's made it perfectly clear she wants for us to... you know... do the horizontal mombo. No-strings, just a bit of fun. Now, I like her and have a good time with her, but I don't really want to get into a relationship right now. I ended a relationship in the last year, and the girl I broke up with went haywire and I think I'm experiencing a bit of anxiety because of it.

So I'd be all up for something frothy and easy. I'm just absolutely terrified I'd get her pregnant. Should I just say to hell with it, drop my fear and have a bit of fun or am I right for being overly-cautious?
I hope I'm not sounding a little arrogant here. The last thing I am with women is arrogant, which is why I find this whole situation a little puzzling. Girls rarely present me with an opportunity like this. Guess there's no accounting for taste!!

opinion guy

Personally, and I know alot will disagree, I don't believe there is anythign such thing as casual. If it were me, I would see that situations as hazard-laden and wouldn't do it. But thats just me.

krudler

As long as ye have safe sex it shouldnt be a problem really, wear a condom regardless if shes on the pill or not to be safe, and if you're that worried you could always pull out beforehand to reduce the risk even further, as long as you both kno what you're expecting from this go for it

ash23

I don't know. I've had casual flings and they've been fine, just what the doctor ordered in some cases.
It gets messy when feelings start creeping in.
Once you can keep it as strictly sex only (so literally you or she calls, meet up, have sex and leave) it should be fine. Obviously be strict about contraception. Use condoms and spermicide and preferably she would be using something too.

Don't get into texting territory other than to initiate sex, don't hang around with her, don't go out for drinks etc. Keep it "business only".

If you can't do that then don't get involved.

Oh The Humanity

She said no strings....why are you worried she wants a relationship..? Maybe she has her eye elsewhere but just wants a bit of sex with you while she works on the other thing.

Just wear a condom and stop worrying!