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Priorities all wrong

  • 11-10-2009 11:09pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I am a final year student and am I worried about exams or my thesis? No not at all but what I am scared of is finishing college and regret of not really getting with the opposite sex during my time in college.
    I do a course that is exclusively male, geeky and very small so don't have a lot of female interaction. I am also terrible at my course (I just about scraped a 2.2 last year) which I don't really care about.
    I am an out going person like I hate being inside or just sitting at home (I would feel like I would have missed something if I didn't head out) but I have the mentality that things will come to me and not the other way around. I look back though my years in college and see so MANY missed opportunities from a girl smiling at me from the dance floor and then sitting beside me to a girl getting my number and texting me both of whom I was very interested in and did nothing about. There was also a girl who I was very interested in and I know she was too but she ended up doing a year abroad and came back in a relationship. Life seems to be passing me by and I don't like it but I wont do anything to stop it.

    My priorities are all wrong like the way it is at the moment is 1.Women, 2.Sport, 3.College when really it should be the other way around but even still I suck at every single one of them.


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  • #2
    Thornography
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 640 ✭✭✭Thornography


    Trust me when I say, The grass is always greener on the other side.

    Iv did it both ways, Women / drinking / college and college / drinking / women

    And I can assure you, both ended the same

    Its all about what makes you happy!

    Iv settled on a great balance of girlfriend - Work - Part time college - Drinking - music - gym - and literally couldn't be happier.

    Get a balance of you priorities, Don`t let one before another cause tbh there all as important as each others, just in different ways.

    Be the jack of all trades, master at none, as my nan would tell me :)


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