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once again what does this break mean???

  • 10-10-2009 10:45am
    #1
    lostinlimerick
    Closed Accounts Posts: 23 ✭


    my bf of nearly a yr and a half wants to take a break he says over this leaving cert he wants to take time outto study but also mentions he wants to have freedom with his lads e.g being allowed to go random places wen he wants and jst not being in a serious relationship but says he wants to get back after awhile:mad:

    yet he doesnt like if i am able to meet new ppl that he just thinks of this as a simple break but from where i see it I just think he wants his own way. so confused and dont no what to do :confused:

    i would like what other people think of this?

    much apreciated


Comments

  • #2
    Firetrap
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,442 ✭✭✭Firetrap


    It looks to me like he wants to have his cake and eat it. To see you when it suits him.


  • #3
    lostinlimerick
    Closed Accounts Posts: 23 ✭lostinlimerick


    any advice on what I should do about this is it best I go being single


  • #4
    Firetrap
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,442 ✭✭✭Firetrap


    It sounds like a relationship that's fizzling out to be honest. There's nothing wrong with him wanting to spend time with his friends and to concentrate on his studies but I don't think that this is what it's about. Does he plan on seeing you at all or just having you as a safety net if he doesn't find someone better in the meantime?


  • #5
    advicewhore
    Closed Accounts Posts: 56 ✭✭advicewhore


    best thing is to be single...tell him u just want it to be a total break up, if hes going out with his friends and meeting new people, then you should be doing the exact same! trust me you'll be glad you did in a few weeks! and you never know, it might make him cop on and realise you won't hang around waiting! and he may want you back! then its up to you to decide whether or not you're bothered with him! theres gonna be so many better guys out there... i know from past experience! waiting around for guys to have their cake and eat it...is absolutly a complete waste of time!!


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