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Thought I liked a girl...but now stuck in pickle

  • 09-10-2009 2:59am
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hey guys,

    Anyway...met this girl on a night out on the pull with a friend. We get talking and turns out we have a whole load in common. We kept meeting up on random night and finally got the courage to make the first move ie. kiss the face off.

    Problem is...after tonight I dont think I like her, i'd be kissing her and there'd be nothing, I didnt enjoy it. Its pretty clear she really likes me and wants to keep meeting up, but I really dunno what to say now because I think I led her on a bit :(

    I think i'm still getting over a previous relationship but I wouldn't see me liking this girl even if I was over it completely. She's only in the country for the next 4 months too...but still dont know how to break it to her because she's such a nice girl, and I don't wanna be a dick and feel bad :(

    Cheers guys, hope ye's have some advice!


Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,055 ✭✭✭Emme


    Be a man and tell the girl nicely that you don't see the point in continuing to see each other. If she's leaving the country in 4 months she shouldn't have a problem with this and she will hopefully meet somebody a bit more mature when she gets home if not in the meantime.

    Don't lead girls on in future if you're not sure of what you want. You wouldn't like it if somebody did it to you.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,324 ✭✭✭Oh The Humanity


    You didn't do anything wrong. You tried it out and didn't have as much of a connection as you thought.

    Be straight but not cruel, but do let her know clearly.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Thanks guys, will hopefully get around to sayin it today. Being led on sucks, I never wanted to do that to a girl at all!

    cheers!


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