Met a girl in a club..

LegacyUser

Dear all...
Sorry to be putting up another one of these threads but I was in a club the other night and started talking to this girl. We met again at the end of the night and I got her number. I text her and she actually replies. Thing is, whenever I suggest meeting up she stops replying...
I'd appreciate any advice as I've never gotten this far before.
Thanks!!

minidazzler

Yeah, sounds like she is interested in the male attention more than anything really. The correct thing to do is just stop texting her, because it's unlikely you are getting anywhere.

That's the correct thing, but for the life of me I can never do it myself.

Wibbs

Ring her.

Now Im not one who automatically dismisses texts as a means of communicating but in this case I would ring her and call her bluff. If she's interested she'll appreciate your directness. Indeed this could be why she's not replying when you ask her out. She may be looking for a guy who is serious when he needs to be. Frivolous jokey texts fine. Serious biz needs a call.

If she's not interested and/or is an Attention Whore tm well then you'll know by her answer and then you have your answer. Ring her in the evening in case she's busy in work/college during the day.

BraziliaNZ

yes there seems to be a lot of girls out there who just love texting all day long, so whether she wants to meet you or not, she still may want another person that she can text constantly on buses and at work etc etc, some people are like that

unhappycamper

Move on, she really should have the basic table manners to reply, she is either immature or not that interested.

Colonel_McCoy

Stop texting her, she loves the attention and/or she has a boyfriend

LegacyUser

Thanks guys!!

dublingal80

either call her or stop texting her

Get yourself out on saturday and find yourself a nice girl who will text you back when u ask her out!

Pinky Pixie

Maybe she gets a bit freaked out because she has forgotten what you look like and is afraid if she mets up with you she won't recognise you! It has happened me a few times but never stopped me..... I know girls who have liked guys but have chickened out of dates because of this reason!!

kjl

call her

G-Money

You could try calling her and asking her during the conversation. However don't go "Hello, this is SeekingGuidance from the other night, how about we go out on Thurs night".

When you call her, don't start off with something like "so how was your day?". Start off with some sort of interesting story or something that happened to you during the day. It doesn't have to be some big Da Vinci code style story with plot twists and surprise endings. Just say something "jeez do you know what, why is it that every time I go into McDonalds I always end up in the slowest queue". You know, just something half interesting, light hearted and funny.

Keep the interaction light, interesting and funny and make sure you get off the phone while she's still enjoying the conversation and before she makes her excuses to hang up. Just say something like "Listen, i've got to go now but how about we meet up on Thursday night about 8pm for a drink. How does that sound?"

If she says yes, grand. If she says no and doesn't suggest a specific day and time to re-schedule, be polite, unaffected, get off the phone and delete her number straight away.