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Asking colleague out

  • 06-10-2009 1:07am
    #1
    whoop.world
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1 ✭


    Hi all, I have just joined boards.ie despite referring to them in the past throughout the years. I have a problem and I am hoping a few wise people out there can offer me some advice.

    There is a girl at work who I am crazy about. I actually met her before she started working in our company on a night out. I never set eyes on her again until she started with us a few weeks ago. She is the nicest girl you could ever meet. I initially thought she was just good looking but through talking to her at work I have come to realise that she is genuine and just lovely. I say hi to her and we always have a nice conversation that always ends with a laugh. I don't get talking to her everyday but at least once or twice a week, I make an effort to walk past her desk to say hi.

    I want to ask her out. Problem is that I am so backward beyond belief. I know I can't ask her at work and I would rather wait until I see her out again but that doesnt seem to be getting me anywhere. If I don't do it soon, I know that she will meet someone else and then thats it, chance gone.

    Has anyone any advice for me?? I will be happy to add additional info if required.

    Thanks.


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  • #2
    CDfm
    Closed Accounts Posts: 20,649 ✭✭✭✭CDfm


    Ask her for a drink after work on a friday or for lunch some day and talk about non work stuff. In other work let her talk and you listen as people love talking about themselves.Thats fairly safe as its not a real date.

    Once the ice is broken then it wont be so hard.


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