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Masterbation

  • 05-10-2009 5:56pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    In our relationship the issue of masterbation came up. I'd like to be able to discuss this with my friends but I'm really embarrassed. How much do you think is 'normal' to do it? For men and for women? Does it change with age or if in a relationship?

    I'd like to know as we've discussed it and I'm not sure if it's usual to be doing it regular or not? What you think? I don't think it should be a problem in our relationship.


Comments

  • #2
    Nevyn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Only you and your partner can agree on what is normal in your relationship and what you agree to. Personally if someone expected me to stop all together I would tell them no a hope in hell, but also if I felt I that my sexual needs were not being meet and they were masturbating rather then having sex with me I would not be pleased.

    Ye need to figure it out between ye.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Hi OP, I'm single at the moment so I masturbate most nites which is probably way more frequent than most ladies but when I was with my bf we made love a few times a week so that kept both of us more than happy. Neither of us masturbated then (I'd have known if he was). Personally I wouldn't be too happy if i had a bf and he was at himself cos I'd be quite happy to do it for him !!


  • #4
    Annie Bananie
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 137 ✭✭Annie Bananie


    Doesnt matter how much or how little others do it. You and your partner may also do it more or less then the other. Do it when you feel like it, doesnt matter if you are single or in a relationship to be honest :)
    I do it, my bf does it, everybody does it :)
    Enjoy! :D


  • #5
    krudler
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,788 ✭✭✭✭krudler


    Why does it matter how much you do it?I'm in a relationship and we're both open about the fact that when we're not together, go nuts with it :)


  • #6
    Nevyn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Morgan Attractive Transient banned for a week for off topic and unhelpful posting.


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  • #7
    eviltwin
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    I'm in a relationship and I still do it on a regular basis and I know he does too. It doesnt bother me. As for how often, it depends. I can go maybe a week or two with no desire to do it and other times I can be doing it twice a day every day.

    It shouldnt matter once either one of you aren't choosing to do it over having sex then I dont think you have anything to worry about


  • #8
    shellyboo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,883 ✭✭✭shellyboo


    There is no "normal", and it definitely shouldn't be a problem in a relationship. However, problems can arise if one partner is maturbating, but denying their partner sex.

    Apart from that, nobody should be dictating to anyone how often they're allowed touch their own body.


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