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confused and sad

  • 04-10-2009 11:33pm
    #1
    Hman09
    Closed Accounts Posts: 35 ✭


    I started back in college about a month ago and I've been hanging out with a girl from my class. We get on great, always having a laugh. During college and outside of college times.
    Ive been getting quite fond of her and I feel something for her.

    So anyway, the other night we were hanging out and her bf texted her saying it was over between those two. She wasn't that upset but maybe it hadn't hit her yet. I was so happy yet at the same time I felt so sad for her:( and I feel terrible to be even happy about it. There is also an underlining factor of the way he treated her and she hated it and she couldnt take it anymore.
    I cheered her up as much as possible that night and went home. Later that night she was flirting with me on the phone...

    Since then ive texted her a few times to see how she is, but she hasnt replied. I have no idea whats going on in her head.:(

    Any ideas? I hope shes alright


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  • #2
    Firetrap
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,442 ✭✭✭Firetrap


    Maybe it's hit her that she's been dumped by her boyfriend. Delayed reaction. She could be a bit embarrassed that she's been flirting with you and is trying to pull back. Best thing to do is to act like nothing's happened and be your usual self with her when you meet her again. You can play it by ear from there - maybe she fancies you. Maybe she doesn't.


  • #3
    Hman09
    Closed Accounts Posts: 35 ✭Hman09


    Firetrap wrote: »
    Maybe it's hit her that she's been dumped by her boyfriend. Delayed reaction. She could be a bit embarrassed that she's been flirting with you and is trying to pull back. Best thing to do is to act like nothing's happened and be your usual self with her when you meet her again. You can play it by ear from there - maybe she fancies you. Maybe she doesn't.

    Yeah I reckon illl do that, I don't want to push anything on her so ill pretend nothing happened. But should I mention the break up at all? In college tomorrow morning with her so im trying to be carefull with my words when I see her


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Hman09 wrote: »
    Yeah I reckon illl do that, I don't want to push anything on her so ill pretend nothing happened. But should I mention the break up at all? In college tomorrow morning with her so im trying to be carefull with my words when I see her
    Don't mention the break up, she can talk about that with her girlfriends.
    Being all supportive and nice might get you a couple of nights with her, but it would only be to boost her confidence, make her feel better.
    Back off and give her space. Like you said you are not really concerned about her breakup because you want her for yourself. So stop pretending you care.


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