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So confused...

  • 02-10-2009 11:27pm
    #1
    _red_6_
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27 ✭


    Hello all...:)

    Im 17 year old guy...been on and off with my gf for 3 years! I've been with other girls between breaks. She cheated on me a while back but I forgave her(I know I shouldnt have blah blah :P). I dont think I love her as much any more and its all just got a bit repetitive. But (not to sound big-headed) she loves me! Ive been thinkn about ending it for weeks but can't bring myself to it...

    AND

    I've been best mates with this other girl for 5 years and I really like her..:confused: We get on really well and are really comfortable around eachother. We are kinda flirty with eachother but she's like that with everybody.

    I dunno what to do :(


Comments

  • #2
    kjl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,127 ✭✭✭kjl


    break up with your current gf, you're only 17, she will get over it


  • #3
    minidazzler
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,650 ✭✭✭✭minidazzler


    Dump the current, you don't wanna be with her, why prolong the inevitable.

    On the other friend, I can't give advice, but break up with current first, then see what the story is with your other friend, if the flirting increases give it a shot. If not, then just stay mates.


  • #4
    tannytantans
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 302 ✭✭tannytantans


    Break up with the current - you're not being fair to her if you don't feel the same.

    i wouldn't try it on with your friend straight away - out of respect for your previous gf. Just hang out with her a bit and see how things go....


  • #5
    Nervous Wreck
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16,115 ✭✭✭✭Nervous Wreck


    ^^Agreed. It's obvious that your current relationship is pretty much over but that's no excuse to let yourself jump straight into another. Give it a month or so out of respect for your current gf and then sort your buzz with the other one.


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