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Meeting new people

  • 02-10-2009 2:04pm
    #1
    Copper23
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 525 ✭✭✭


    Posted here before at length but my topic seems to be gone from the boards.

    Just an update. Having big problems talking to people, meeting people and meeting girls.

    I'm a bit messed up, recently was with a girl just for a few months but it ended when someone else asked her out and she said sure "we're only friends anyway".Cant deal with ppl being able to just go off and meet someone else at any moment they like, this has happened with last gf 2 years ago and I have to wait 2 years + and then even that doesn't work out. I'd like to just move on an meet someone else instead of thinking about it all the time cos shes with someone the second we're finished and I am not.

    I've tried talking more when I'm out but can't get past "Hi, I'm...." before girls turn and walk away.

    I know everyone offered some great advice before but I can't even get to a 2nd sentence before its game over. I cant understand it, its making my confidence hit a new low and just wanna get on with my life.


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  • #2
    DagneyTaggart
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 74 ✭✭DagneyTaggart


    Copper talk to everyone when you're out. Practice makes perfect. So practice, practice, practice. Then when you are out and you meet someone who you think you might like it will seem like you have the gift of the gab.

    I speak from experience. I was in your situation in the recent past. Then I met someone who had this attitude and encouraged me to do likewise. I'll tell you it felt like a revelation. So simple and it works. Just chat; no expectations, just chat. You'll enjoy your nights out far more too. Now get out there tonight and enjoy yourself.


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