Relationship dilema

troubleshooter

Im dating two women, both call themselves my girlfriend, problem is there are a few social events coming up where both will be there, but I have to attend also, advice ?

DontYaThink

Hmmmm

Maybe you should not date two women at the same time and there would be no dilemma?

mad m

My advice would be dont go if you want to keep on seeing both, otherwise breakup with one or both before event...

Ha...Sorry for my laugh, but its one of those situations "love to be there"....

minidazzler

You sir, are a player. Now is the time the game has thrown in a wild card.

You have a decision to make, which one do you want to continue dating more?

Be prepared to deal with whatever goes down at the event though!!!

troubleshooter

DontYaThink wrote: »

Hmmmm

Maybe you should not date two women at the same time and there would be no dilemma?

Not good to put your eggs in one basket either, this way less to lose, one distracts me when not with the other,one potentially a great love, great meeting of minds, but sexually uptight, the other sexually adventerous, but no meeting of minds, also pishes me off talking about her sexual past adventures alot, but up for alot.

minidazzler

troubleshooter wrote: »

Not good to put your eggs in one basket either, this way less to lose, one potentially a great love, great meeting of minds, but sexually uptight, the other sexually adventerous, but no meeting of minds, also pishes me off talking about her sexual past adventures alot.

So, you have the best of both worlds, great, but you are still a player if they don't know about each other.

My advice would be dump the pothentially great love one, she will be the one most likely hurt by you in the long run. No offence, but you do come across badly here.

troubleshooter

minidazzler wrote: »

So, you have the best of both worlds, great, but you are still a player if they don't know about each other.

My advice would be dump the pothentially great love one, she will be the one most likely hurt by you in the long run. No offence, but you do come across badly here.

Like the potential great love one alot, great days out with her, great chats etc, if she sexually loosened up would be great.
Only known her a few weeks, but feels so good around each other, thinking of getting engaged to her. Its blissful, but shes does not like 3somes, porn, even swearing etc, on some kind of spiritual trip.

Just being honest.

minidazzler

troubleshooter wrote: »

Like the potential great love one alot, great days out with her, great chats etc, if she sexually loosened up would be great.

Just being honest.

I know, but just think, if she doesn't loosen up a bit, will you go elsewhere? Given that you currently are doing so.....

Is she the one who will be most hurt if she finds out why it ended? Sooner is always better than later.

I'm not judging you myself, I have done some bad things, but I don't string people along when I know I will hurt them.

Make your decision mate, and try to be tact about it so no scene's are caused at the event.

Mr. Incognito

This can't be real. Seriously.

I suggest you find a way of interacting with women that scores them on a more meaningful basis