Do you think he'll call?

LegacyUser

I have been Lusting after my neighbours friend for a while now. I'm in uni and we live on the same road as my friend. I've seen him coming and going from her house and at uni but have never spoken to him.

She had a party in hers the other night and he had a few girls coming onto him but (and not being big headed) he kept coming back to speak to me. We ended up sitting in a corner talking all night and after an hour or two he asked could he kiss me.
So we ended up back at my house, he spent the night and the following day.

I don't normally sleep with people right away but he is going to college in France for Erasmus in a couple of weeks so I felt like it was now or never.

So we both knew it was a one off. When he was going we said our goodbyes in my room as my housemates were all downstairs. It was a case of "goodbye". He asked if I had any regrets and I said no. He didn't ask for my number, I didn't ask for his.

But when I walked him to the door he said "see you later" and I laughed and said "yeah, like in July" and he said "no, sure I'm bound to see you in the next couple of weeks before I go. I'll be down in "marys" house at some stage no doubt". So I replied "ok, if you are pop over".

That was that.

So was it just him being polite or should I expect to see him again.

LegacyUser

Did he have to ask you for a kiss or did you give him any signs?

minidazzler

From what you say, I am 99% sure he WILL call. You should get his number off your friend though, text him.

He must like you, he did ASK for the kiss after all, I personally only ask when I really like someone and don't want to mess it up at all.

Get his number and call him!!!! Do it!!:D

G-Money

I'm not saying you shouldn't want to see him again but from your own admission: "We both knew it was a one off", you didn't ask for his number, he didn't ask for yours and he's leaving in a few weeks. I think unless you bump into him somewhere the chances of you seeing him again are slim. Having said that, I don't believe he's done anything wrong and it may have just been one of those encounters.

I once was out with a few colleagues and somehow we got talking about one night stands and the girl said something like "The next day if the girl doesn't suggest swapping numbers, the guy shouldn't either." This could very well have been the case with you and him.

Having said that, I've never had a one night stand and girls don't even know I'm alive so what would I know

dearg lady

I think grandmaster covers it pretty well, I'd be surprised to hear from him if I were you, yeah you had a great time but there doesn't seem to have been an intention on either side to take it further, ye didn't exchange numbers, and he's heading away soon. Maybe when he gets back yis might decide to give things a shot.

daisybelle2008

More than likely he won't, I would not invest anytime thinking about it. Sounds like typical one night stand stuff. Go out and have a good time and forget about him, if he calls then it will be an unexpected bonus. But it more than likely will be for a quick action replay and no more.

LegacyUser

OP here, Damn I didn't ask for his number as I thought that would be coming on too strong. I thought it was very sweet that he asked to kiss me. I was talking to him for aaaaages so I think he knew I was interested but at the same time was afraid that if he lunged at me I'd slap him silly )

I'm not going to text him or get his number. He's a friend of my friend on face book so going to send him a little message with a bit of an "in joke" from that night (which is in relation to an event he has this week).

Not being an eager beaver but being nice and friendly all the same.

Nothing serious is going to come from this, I know that. But no harm in getting a couple of weeks out of it.

LegacyUser

go for it OP. Take a risk. nothing to lose. I know exactly how you feel. You mightn't be looking for a relationship, but its always nice to keep in touch with someone who you bonded so well with. Id follow your line of thinking. Take a risk, send him a message! What have you got to lose? NOthing

Sarah**

Yeah go for it! What have you got to loose?

If he doesnt reply - dont beat yourself up over it! And next time you bump in to him at "mary's" act normal and friendly - possibly a bit aloof and he will be interested again as you haven't chased!

I wonder the saying " it's all about the chase" really is true?

LegacyUser

People think too much about things and try to play games. Games do not work and just confuse people and depress them. Take a risk, be cool, good things come to good people. good luck