so what to do?!

LegacyUser

ok, so here is the stoy. ended up with with this girl 2 nights ago. everything was great and got on brilliant. we hadnt know each other before.

thing is i had to go to work in the morn and she didnt so i left her in bed in the morn. she was half awake. thing is i never got her no. i was planning to but at the very end i dunno what happened and i didnt for some stupid reason! just was kinda awkward with her very sleepy

so ive had pangs of regret since. talk about worst feeling ever...the only way of getting in touch with her i think is ringing the place she worked before and asking them to give her my no?

i know it sounds unreal stalkerish. but i was thinking whats to lose? fair enough if she doesnt want to meet up and great if she does. like it was a great night and we both had a great time. think she deffo wanted to meet up again

cant believe i was so stupid not to get it.

so what yee think?

Kidchameleon

Hi,

Defo do everything you can to get her number, youll regret it if you dont try.

Good Luck!

LegacyUser

If you can contact her, then definitely do it. Imagine if she really wants to see you again but thinks you're not interested. Lifes too short for regrets.

shellyboo

Can you look her up on Facebook or something?

scarymoon1

just some advice - i remember reading a story like yours before and the person was advised not to ring the place of work as you hardly know her, it would be a step too far. And yes stalkerish if you want. She could have asked for your number no?! If you must ring her work be ready for surprise and an awkward conversation!

LegacyUser

ok i think you are in a win win situation really...

Ringing her work only seems stalkerish if she doesnt like you. If she does like you (which she prob does) she will think its sweet that you liked her enough to chase her a bit.

I would anyway. So if she doesnt like you, shell think your a stalker and youll never hear from her, but at least youll know that it wasnt 'meant to be' or whatever. If she does like you, shell call you back and as long as nothin else stalkery type things come up shell just take it that a guy she likes liked her back enough to go to great lengths to see her and then youll know that she likes you.

Either way youll know, and therell be no what ifs. what have you got to lose? if she thinks your a stalker she doesnt like you and you wont see her again anyway. If you do nothin you wont see here again too so really things can only get better.

Best of luck!

LegacyUser

Ring the workplace and say you are a taxi driver and you found a bag in the car and the number was the only one on it. That should not arouse any awkward questions in her workplace and you can explain it away as a precaution when you do get in touch.

Victor

Hang on. Do you know where she lives? Do you know where she works?

Overheal

unregistered wrote: »

ok, so here is the stoy. ended up with with this girl 2 nights ago. everything was great and got on brilliant. we hadnt know each other before.

thing is i had to go to work in the morn and she didnt so i left her in bed in the morn. she was half awake. thing is i never got her no. i was planning to but at the very end i dunno what happened and i didnt for some stupid reason! just was kinda awkward with her very sleepy

so ive had pangs of regret since. talk about worst feeling ever...the only way of getting in touch with her i think is ringing the place she worked before and asking them to give her my no?

i know it sounds unreal stalkerish. but i was thinking whats to lose? fair enough if she doesnt want to meet up and great if she does. like it was a great night and we both had a great time. think she deffo wanted to meet up again

cant believe i was so stupid not to get it.

so what yee think?

My mom is happily married again because a guitarist playing a gig at a bar had the common sense to look her up in the phone book the next day and ask her out to his next show.

What have you to lose exactly by leaving her your number at her office?