Advice please

LegacyUser · 25-09-2009 1:23pm #1

So I met this guy through online dating and we went out on a date, had such a fun time, went to the pub for a drink then ended up in a club in town. We kissed and he ended up staying at mine, we shared my bed but nothing happened.

I really like this guy and am wondering what the next step is. We were txtn the day after the date (which was yday) and I'd really like to see him again. Do I leave it upto him to ask me or should I ask? I just don't wanna come on too strong

Any advice appreciated

Wibbs · 25-09-2009 1:32pm

Well maybe just drop him a line and ask him what he's up to at the weekend? His answer should tell you enough I reckon and wont stick your neck out too much.

Miss Fluff · 25-09-2009 2:00pm

You don't want to seem overly keen as it can be off-putting. Not into mind games etc but you were in contact yesterday by text etc so let him initiate the next contact. Sounds like you had a great time so he will be in touch:)

Colonel_McCoy · 25-09-2009 2:32pm

Dont wait around for him to make contact. If you want to meet him again just ask him!

G-Money · 25-09-2009 2:46pm

Just avoid any mind games and don't "test" him to see if he's interested. It could very well backfire.

I'm sure if he's interested he will be in touch. Don't play it too cool though. I know if it were me, if I thought a girl had lost interest (even if she actually hadn't) I'd move on. But that's just me.