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Made bad choice

  • 25-09-2009 1:02pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hey guys maybe someone can help how do I turn the following situation around?

    Girl asks guy (me) for number a couple of years ago, guy's in relationship (over now) so nothing comes of it

    Guy randomly gets talking to girl via email in last few months

    Guy and girl email for a while

    Girl emails guy her number (unasked for)

    Random texting ensues... incl. drunk texting

    Girl and Guy due to meet up in town after work a week or so ago, guy reads situation wrong and says they should re-schedule

    Can tell by texts that follow over the week, girl's not impressed




    So how do you fix it?


Comments

  • #2
    Kiera
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    Ring her.


  • #3
    ash23
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,791 ✭✭✭ash23


    Apologise profusely for cancelling. Tell her you had been looking forward to seeing her and would like to reschedule and tell her exactly when. Otherwise she'll think you're just messing her around.

    Oh and don't cancel the next time!!! :D


  • #4
    G-Money
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,199 ✭✭✭G-Money


    Yeah, if you are interested, say sorry for the misunderstanding and re-schedule but make sure you are the one who suggests when to meet up etc. Don't say something like "oh we should reschedule soon". Be specific and say something like "Sorry about the other night (insert reason here) how about we meet on Tuesday at 8pm..."

    My own rule is that if I'm meeting someone and they cancel, I let them suggest when to meet up again. If they don't suggest it, I don't bring it up again.


  • #5
    dirtydress
    Closed Accounts Posts: 356 ✭✭dirtydress


    grandmaster wrote: »
    My own rule is that if I'm meeting someone and they cancel, I let them suggest when to meet up again. If they don't suggest it, I don't bring it up again.

    Same here, it just reads tht they're not interested and I generally dont bother with them again. SHOW her you're interested and do it quickly!


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