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worried unmarried father

  • 24-09-2009 05:07PM
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Can anyone tell me what my wrights really are.I have my kids with me now as i had to ask my ex to leave last night as she never stops screaming and fighting with me and the kids.If she likes can she come here with the Garda and take the kids.Its my house well my name on the mortgage,only,So dose anyone have any advice


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  • #2
    damnyanks
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,276 ✭✭✭damnyanks


    I'd talk to a lawyer or ring the gardai and ask about your rights (They may be suspicious of you though)

    As far as I know men in general have **** all rights if the woman really has problems , unless of course you can demonstrate they are unsafe around her.


  • #3
    deadhead13
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,034 ✭✭✭deadhead13


    http://www.amen.ie/


  • #4
    CDfm
    Closed Accounts Posts: 20,649 ✭✭✭✭CDfm


    Guys do have legal rights but often don't know what to do to enforce those rights.

    With deadhead13 here you should contact Amen. They have a helpline 046 9023718 and after hours numbers are posted on their website.

    Best of luck OP.


  • #5
    the_syco
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,315 ✭✭✭✭the_syco


    sad dad wrote: »
    If she likes can she come here with the Garda and take the kids.
    Get onto Amen NOW, as you have next to no rights regarding the kids, as you're not married to her. Family law sucks in this country. Best of luck.

    Also, post a thread in PI @ http://boards.ie/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=127 as there are a lot of folks there who have had similar problems.


  • #6
    994
    Closed Accounts Posts: 911 ✭✭✭994


    Make sure to keep a record of her actions and incidents, photograph injuries, and get to the Gardai before she does.


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  • #7
    CDfm
    Closed Accounts Posts: 20,649 ✭✭✭✭CDfm


    OP - You shouldnt get worked up or react. If your ex is causing problems you can take the legal route and obtain a protection/safety order or a barring order from the family court and you can apply for this straight away.

    http://www.citizensinformation.ie/categories/birth-family-relationships/problems-in-marriages-and-relationships/barring_safety_and_protection_orders


    You should seek legal advice before going down this route but if the situation is already out of hand.


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