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Emotional? I need help

  • 23-09-2009 9:23am
    #1
    NineIronWonder
    Closed Accounts Posts: 15 ✭


    ok so i really like this girl and we have been texting for awhile now, generally she initiates it but i do if she doesnt. Anyway i have gotten used to how she does text, u know smilies phrasing etc etc. Anyhow the other night she bumped me off for a few hours and said her phone was dead or somethin... I didnt mind she was out with her friends last thing she wants is me pestering her, later that night i had a bit of an attitude bout it but never said. The following day she text me anyhow and we were talking but she seemed a bit different kinda like the night b4 she was different. When i asked her wats wrong she simply replied; 'Nothin im a girl' that she was 'grand' and she was 'just all emotional lately'. I was a little sad over this and continued to ask her she jus fobbed me off really and said il let ya go. Throughout the texting she was very short with her messages and there was no smilies or anythin which was very odd. I pretty much told her then that i would talk tomorrow jus to cheer up.

    The following day there was no text from her :( At the moment i cant stop thinking about her and how she is? I cant get her outta my mind but i dont want to intrude on her if she jus wants space. I dunno what to do and i need some advice or even an outside explaination on what might be up?


Comments

  • #2
    Sephiroth_dude
    Moderators, Computer Games Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 81,083 Mod ✭✭✭✭Sephiroth_dude


    Is it possible she could have met someone while being out?


  • #3
    Pinky Pixie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 241 ✭✭Pinky Pixie


    Op have you met up with this girl for a date or are you just texting? If not maybe she is a little bored at not meeting up and thinks it is going no where. If I were you I'd give her a text again and say "hey how ya feelin, fancy meeting up". If she replys yay you!...and if she doesn't move on :)


  • #4
    Sinall
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 813 ✭✭✭Sinall


    Give her a bit of space. If there is something up she obviously does not want to discuss it. And if there isn't anything up, maybe she just isn't in the mood for sending a constant stream of texts. Neither of you are under any obligation to text each other smilies constantly, even if you have been making a habit of it recently. She could just be having a busy few days.

    Leave it a few days, do your own thing, try to relax about it. Continuing to bombard her with texts is not going to make you seem attractive in her eyes. I know it's nice when you hear from someone you like, but take your cue from her for the moment and back off a little bit. If something is up with her she now knows that you are there if she wants to talk.

    Maybe text her in a few days and suggest meeting up as Pinkie Pixie said above. If she says yes, all well and good, if she says no or puts you off then move on!


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