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What to do now?

  • 21-09-2009 10:51pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    I broke up with my boyf of 2 years last week because he was making no effort, no plans for future and was flirting with other women, via text and email as well as on nights out. I know I did the right thing, but bloody hell I never epected it to hurt so much? All the littlr things, I just miss so much about him, obviously not the bad bits, but our little in jokes, and having someone there. So I'm not even sure its him as such I miss I think I just enjoyed being in a relationship and dont really want to be on my own.

    I can't face dating hell again, I'm 27 and I just want to meet a nice guy to chill with, I'm not into pub/club scene, well I am but dont really see it as viable way to meet someone, and dont know much about online dating. I know a week is too soon anyway, but I just want to try and move on and mend my bruised heart.

    Any ideas?


Comments

  • #2
    ladymarmalade
    Closed Accounts Posts: 50 ✭✭ladymarmalade


    Sorry about your breakup OP. It's hard even when you know that you shouldn't stay together, to just call it a day and walk away.
    Of course it hurts and it will for a long time. There will be many reminders of him and many milestones to cross.

    However, this is now about you. You need time to mend and get used to your new situation. It's a natural reaction to start thinking about 'the next relationship'. You are very young (take it from me!!) and need to take time out from dating at the moment.

    I know your self-esteem is low at the moment but surround yourself with the people who love you and let yourself mend............ because you will mend.

    Take care x


  • #3
    niceoneted
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 463 ✭✭niceoneted


    I went through something similar - although what I realised was that I missed the relationship and not the guy. It did take me a while to come to that realisation though.
    ~Good luck


  • #4
    suecrot
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9 ✭suecrot


    Well I hope you feel better soon. I'm in exactly the same boat after two years together we broke up last night..been on the cards for the past while but he was pretty cruel about the whole thing. Hard to imagine moving on at this stage.


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