breaking old ties

Candlemaker

I figure yeah, this may get seen by the wrong person but hey i need to sort this out quick.

Just about to start college (in a few hours), Have an old friend from secondary school. He came out with some weird **** at the end of secondary school and was really abusive. Was just trying to say that i was unwelcome hanging around a bunch of friends and then got to really in your face abusive texts all the time. Other people have acknowledged that he acts up randomly for no reason every so often and really oddly just abusing people but not that aggressively (as in dominant bully style). to be honest i couldn't care less but he's apparently in the same college class as i am now.

He texted me a few times on the reg date after he saw me walk past and i just in the moment felt a bit sorry for him as he looked like he was just "lone"ing so i invited him to come along and just hang out with a few guys. The only thing is he hasn't changed his ways. He just sat there texting on his phone just following us around. I opened the conversation to him a few times with questions but he just said a few words and then went back to silence. I don't really want this guy around me any more but i'm afraid if i tell him even in the niceest way possible that he's go kind of skitzo and start making a scene and harassing me again.

How do i deal with this?

Ishindar

u dont owe this guy anything. just split anytime he comes over to you and he will get the message. if he gets nasty with u just ignore and block his number. remember he only has power over you if u give him that power.

sunnyside

Don't invite him along again. If he gets too dependant on you at the very start of the year he could cling to you for the rest of the year. Don't let thqt happen.