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Trouble orgasming (male)

  • 17-09-2009 10:11pm
    #1
    SockPuppet11
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2 ✭


    I am in my first relationship for a while now and have had trouble orgasming during sex. I can generally orgasm each time we have sex, but it takes quite a while (maybe 30 minutes of active sex or more) and I am overwhelmingly more likely to do so in certain positions. I also cannot really orgasm with a condom, so my girlfriend is on the pill. I have certainly improved quite a bit since beginning the relationship, but after an apparent pregnancy scare my girlfriend wants me to start wearing a condom at least occasionally, and so she wants me to try and deal with my condition, also for my own sake.

    Having researched the condition I have guessed I probably have Delayed Ejaculation, and this is likely either an emotional problem, or from overly frequent masturbation when I was younger, although I've pretty much stopped since being in a relationship. Has anyone had any experience with this condition, and if so, what kind of treatments are offered? Medication, therapy, or something else? Is this likely to go away by itself, in the short or long term?

    Thanks in advance for any help, I am rather stressed out by all of this.

    (P.S. I would have posted this in the sex forum, but it is closed to non-subscribers, feel free to move the thread if it is more appropriate elsewhere)


Comments

  • #2
    SockPuppet11
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2 ✭SockPuppet11


    Bumping


  • #3
    OS119
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,518 ✭✭✭OS119


    SockPuppet11 wrote: »
    Bumping


    hi OP, obviously the fun police will tell me off, but you don't really have that much of a problem.

    30 mins is by no stretch of the imagination an extravagantly long time to be having sex before you orgasm, and nor is it unusual to find some positions more 'up your street' than others, or to not really enjoy wearing a condom - particularly if you're not used to wearing one during sex.

    imvho, the best way to deal with this 'problem' is to turn it into a strength - improve your general physical fitness so that your body can keep up with your manbits, 'research' the internet to find out if there are things you could do to improve the experience for your partner - you don't want her getting bored while you hammer away - and think to yourself how lucky you and your partner are that you're aren't a 'two pumps and a squirt' merchant.

    you, again imvho, don't have a problem, you have good fortune that you - and your partner - don't know how to handle.

    good luck.


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