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Why do i always think one way but act completly different

  • 17-09-2009 3:01pm
    #1
    formula1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 28 ✭


    im a fairly quiet guy normally and uasally when im by myself i imagine myself being in situations where i'm talkitive and friendly but when i am in the actually in the same situation i dont talk much and i seem fairly shy and unintrested and its probly why im not the most popular guy around...

    anyway this is really pissing my off lately

    any help?


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  • #2
    formula1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 28 ✭formula1


    sunflower27 wrote: »
    You just have to build up the courage to say something and get the ball rolling.

    I was incredibly shy as a teenager and in college. I mean painfully shy.

    It's hard to imagine now as I am very outgoing and would talk to anyone. I remember it being a gradual thing. I didnt just wake up one day more confident... it is hard, I know, but once you start speaking up your confidence will grow and you will start doing it without thinking.

    Don't be hard on yourself - a lot of people lack confidence/are shy.



    aha! confidence! thats the word i was looking for. its a fair summery of myself, lack of confidence...thanks this helps


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