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Why does it keep happening?

  • 15-09-2009 1:42pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Ok a few issues here, not sure if its the right place but I will give it a go,

    Recently it seems I keep falling for gay guys, any one I have liked/had a crush on over the past year has turned out to be gay, for example my male friend who I have major feelings for but doesnt know I do came out to me quite unexpectedly, incidents like this keep happening to me, any guy I see in a bar or club that i remotely take an interest in turns out to be gay. it has really dented my confidence not that I had much i the first place and I dont know what to do, all my friends are in relationships and I just feel like the Bridget Jones of my group, I know it seems trivial but it is really getting to me. any feedback much appreciated.


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  • #2
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 1,007 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    So you like guys who are in touch with their feminine side, not a problem ... a little work on your gay-dar would help though. :)

    Seriously though, you mention that you're not very self-confident, there's a reason for that. There's also a reason you're attracted to unattainable, non-threatening men.

    I don't want to dig too deep here with so little information but it wouldn't do you any harm to have a chat with a counsellor about your self-confidence issues and see where it leads.


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