recent split

LegacyUser

hey guys going unreg for this myself and my ex recently split as we had a very good friendship before we got together. when we got together we were working together but had been friends before that we took a holiday as a couple recently and when we came back we broke up on the last day i would of seen her before she went back to college in tralee so i wouldnt of seen her for a month. the distance bit didnt bother either of us. i still have feelings for her and dont know how to tell her, we still talk daily and its great. so im looking for some advice on should i tell her i still have feelings for her or stay with our agreement of not going to ruin the friendship we have built.

sachamama

how will you feel if she tells you she has a boyfriend?
can you still be friends with her then?

it would be better to base your friendship on honesty and tell her exactly how you feel, take a risk.

LegacyUser

as i said we talk all the time and she hasnt got into a new relationship. as i was her first boyfriend im 23 she's 22. i have been in relationships before but there was something to this one

andy_g

i was going to ask a similar question sorry for hijacking your thread