Should I contact her?

LegacyUser

Ok so I'm not a very confident person and I'm generally too shy approaching girls. But I met someone while on holiday a few days ago. Was out in a club and we were together for most of the night chatting, dancing and kissing.

I was leaving a couple of days after while she was staying on so she gave me her number
saying I should go over and visit her in england where she lives.

We both had a fair bit to drink though so not sure how much she meant it.

But I did get the impression she liked me as she gave me her number without me asking for it and was joking about how I probably wouldn't call etc.

Now basically I'm not sure whether to get in touch or just leave it...

I was thinking I might just send a text and see what happens from there.
Not sure where I can see it going anyway due to the distance but it's nice to have some interest

Any advice?

Lockstep

She gave you her number and mentioned visiting her; what have you got to lose?

Firetrap

Agreed. What harm is there in trying to make contact. If she replies, that'll be great. If not, well at least you'll know and you can move on without having that nagging doubt in your head.

Nervous Wreck

Agreed. Plus, it's not like you'll run into her in the street if it ends badly. :pac:

LegacyUser

Cheers for the replies, reckon I will contact her

I suppose I was a bit unsure, not just in case she doesn't remember me or whatever, but also because going over to visit her, if it came to that, would be a big leap out of my comfort zone for me.

Still as you say I've nothing to lose

VaioCruiser

newuser2009 wrote: »

Still as you say I've nothing to lose

... NOTHING to lose OP. Keep that in mind.


All the best.