from farming background and no freinds

ladylouise

i am farmer daughter.i find it very hard to make friends.i try to make friends i found out today i have absolute nothing in common with them(city type) and i am not able able to have simple conversation because i am not city person.
i,d like to way of meeting people my age from framing background like my self.
i find city people intimating and they same have easier and they have no concept of isolation what it likes it like to be in the middle no where with no body to talk from one week to next.on fortunaly face book was wash out for me and so was bebo. because i know no body to email i try to make friends in city, i wasn,t except there. because they didn,t want to know me.they,ll talk to one another and ignore me as if i wasn,t there.that really upset me why do they that.they have boyfriends and girlfriends in passed .i have no one because i live out in the middle no where where is no social scene even in the town i live.

i am shy,quiet person who is easily intimated by people my age who are better then me who have friends .

i find city people tend to make friends easily.meet boyfriends as easily as buying a bar cholate. for the likes me its impossible because there i find no body from farming background who sound and easy to talk to city people tend ignore me because i come off innocent with lack knowledge of what going on
and how interact with any one because 99.9% on my own with no social life and no one to talk to.i know one guy my age from the city who treated me like child.

there is group of people i train with don,t even give me the time of day i am there 5 years .i might as well not there be there at all.
because of my background and lack social skills.i have no boyfriend and no friends.i don't think city guys are interested in farming daughter any way.

do you have any interest in popular culture op? i know one of the reasons i've ended up actually liking football and paying attention is from the talk in the office.. wanted to be able to chat away and ended up likin the sport.
a few new hobbies, an interest in music or some sports should have you on the right track.

ladylouise

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do you have any interest in popular culture op? i know one of the reasons i've ended up actually liking football and paying attention is from the talk in the office.. wanted to be able to chat away and ended up likin the sport.
a few new hobbies, an interest in music or some sports should have you on the right track.

what is pop culture?there nothing at all where i from believe me there isn,t.i would n,t be going stir crazy if there was stuff to.
i don,t work office i work on farm in the middle of no where .if your a city you would n,t understand i could n,t explain it to you.
i meet some city there have lots of friends to talk to.i,d be there they treated as if i wasn,t there or i didn,t even matter.i try make friends with them
but there not interested in the likes of me.i find city people and single mined as some country folk are more warm and caring .
today i try to talk to girl from city she had no intersted in talking but she talking to other city fine and i got left there.like sack of rubbish

Zaph

ladylouise, you have been repeatedly told to stop starting threads in this forum on the same or similar topics. You have received plenty of good advice in the past, and at this stage you're well beyond the level of help you can receive on Boards for your self-esteem issues and inability to make friends. To re-iterate earlier advice, please seek professional help, you're beyond our capabilities here. I'm afraid now I have no choice but to suspend your access to PI as this forum is not the emotional crutch seem to think it is. And please don't abuse the unregistered posting facility like you did before as any such threads will be deleted.