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Lack of support/interest from OH

  • 11-09-2009 5:43pm
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    LegacyUser
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    Been in a relationship for 3 years. I don't get any support at all from him.

    Latest example; my dog is more or less being diagnosed with the c word and has just had an operation - he is going back tomorrow morning to get his leg cleaned up and a new dressing. Now I asked him to come with me so I can ask further questions about the what if's etc as I went on my own to collect him and a lot was going over my head with what the vet was telling me because I had been so upset all day so I thought if I go through things tomorrow, 2 heads are better than 1, plus this is something that is really taking over my life at the moment and a bit of support from him really wouldn't go amiss, this dog is like my child.

    His reason is because his mate might call because they are going to a bike event, how unfair is that? He wouldn't be going until after lunch anyway.

    Other examples are like I had a minor op a few months ago and he was willing to let me go alone, I had to ask him to come with me. He should have offered and been there for me as unfortunately I had a cancer scare too.

    Now he has this female friend who he swears is platonic, something happened last year where they were playfighting and he hurt her and she thought she had broke her thumb, the next morning he was right in the spare room to ask if she wanted taking to the hospital and she declined saying her other friend said he would take her and he got a cob on saying she is a dick sometimes.

    It isn't just that, he seems so much more mentally interested in everything she has to say and doesn't seem to have any interest in me although he says he loves me more than the world and still fancies me, I don't know why there is such a lack of interest and support in me. I have been there for him everytime **** happens, I deal with everything to help him and what do I get in return?

    What does this mean? Being taken for granted? Him being interested in this "friend"? What? :(


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