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Help with relationship

  • 11-09-2009 9:03am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I've been seeing a guy for just over two months now, he is 8 years older than me. I always classed it as a bit of fun but he now wants to take things seriously. Seeing as I'm starting college I dont really want to be tied down to anyone. We run in two different social circles and with my course being a bit hectic I dont think I'd have the full time to dedicate to the relationship with hobbies taking place after college. I dont want to upset this guy but need help in expressing how I just can't commit myself to a relationship just yet.


Comments

  • #2
    renraw
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 496 ✭✭renraw


    I'll keep this short and sweet. You're starting college and you're going to move in completely different social circles again. I think the best thing you can do is to be honest and tell him that with college and everything, you're going to be up the walls busy. Honestly no point in trying to soften the blow as he may think that theres a chance ye can become an item if you're not honest and direct. Been there, done that....be honest, its the best thing.


  • #3
    shoegirl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,029 ✭✭✭shoegirl


    Tell him how you feel. Be honest.


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