old friend

cena

today i seen an old friend i use to work with. i'v not seen her since last when we last worked together before i had an accident in work. we use to text a few times a week just to see how she was and how college was going. she was so nice to talk too and was great to help if you had trouble. i was out last june for her 21st and we hardly spoke. i phoned her at christmas to wich hera happy new year and i'v not heard our seen her since today. i down town when iseen her driving through the town i live in. we were going slow enough and i seen that she turned her head to look at me. i then had to get petrol and their she was getting an ice cream. now i didn't say hello to her as i don't know if i'v done anything to her or said anything to her and i could couldn't get anything out of my mount to say anything. if i have i always made sure i always said i was sorry. but i was so happy to see her today.

what do ye think i should do

Kevster

To be honest, your post is rather incoherent and you seem to ramble on from one point to another. In effect, you are thinking too much, cena. Stop worrying about whether or not you said hello to her or not - or whether or not she was looking at you - and just take things as they happen. You really are overanalysing things. All you must do is this:

Phone her, ask her how she's doing, and then ask her if she'd like to meet up for a day. Considering that the weather is good these days, ask her if she'd like to go for a walk with you. Not every 'date' has to be to the cinema or pub.

cena

she use to say the same as you that i over think things. i have phoned her since and texted her asking would she like to meet up for a chat. i know she has a new job as she finished college this. she live about 40 mintues away so we don't live too near.

thefeatheredcat

Cena,

Were ye friends before you worked together or just got to know eachother to the point of acquaintances while working together?

I wouldn't read too much into it, although I understand it is a bit of a dent to one's self-confidence.

It sounds like you've made some effort to look to meet up..it may be better just to leave the ball in her court. If she wants to meet up with you, you'll hear from her.

Bear in mind you haven't had the chance to catch up since you've last talked properly - she could be going through something difficult in her life, or changed, or different circle of friends, etc. She may just have seen it as 'work-friends' chatted and that at work, but not involved in eachother's private and personal lives.

No matter what, it's her loss as she could be missing out on the best friendship of her life.

If you don't hear from her, just respect that decision and leave it at that and just don't waste any more energy on this.

cena

no didn't know her before she started to work in the place. we all use to go out every sunday night for abit of fun as friends. maybe she seen it as just work friend.