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Sex on the brain

  • 08-09-2009 9:06pm
    #1
    kk77
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12 ✭


    Hi everyone,I'm a 32 year old female and I separated from my husband two years ago.We were together for 11 years and our sex life was reasonable,not amazing tho.....He had been my one and only sexual partner.Now I have become an utter sexaholic and it seems to be growing out of control...this might not seem to be a major problem but,I am wearing my boyfriend out,No joke!! I have also become obsessed with sexy undies/clothes/sexshops.etc I would have sex 12-14 times a week and have had 24hour "sexathons" with the BF. Am I going through a stage everyone else did in their early twenties or is this the supposed sexual peak for women my age???


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  • #2
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    It sounds pretty average/normal to me, I think you're overanalysing things. Probably the novelty of being with someone else after all those years of being with the same person is a contributing factor to your (imo healthy) horniness as well. Tbh unless something is impacting on your daily life, i.e. your health (having unprotected sex with multiple random partners) or you are missing days at work/neglecting expecations as is often the case with an "addiction" per se then you have nothing to worry about. I'd enjoy it if I were you.

    How are you wearing your boyfriend out incidentally? Are you mkaing unnecessary demands of him?


  • #3
    Terodil
    Closed Accounts Posts: 809 ✭✭✭Terodil


    Miss Fluff wrote: »
    How are you wearing your boyfriend out incidentally? Are you mkaing unnecessary demands of him?
    Well in fairness, having sex twice a day on weekdays and 24h-marathons on the weekends would wear me out in the long run too, physically as well as mentally.

    Although I guess it really depends on you two, being used as a dildo deluxe would instill higher weariness than being loved.

    I guess what I'm saying is: While you should definitely enjoy yourself with your bf (gosh, so many others have just the reverse problem!), maybe you need to give him a breather to regenerate. Perhaps you can explore non-penetrative options, introduce toys and perhaps you could just enjoy yourself on your own every now and then too.


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