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do you think this is healthy?

  • 06-09-2009 9:50am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Me and my ex broke up about a week ago, and as we both knew it was coming I gave him back all his stuff like shirts and dvds he had left at my house.
    However, I kept gifts he had given me, things like stuffed animals, clothes, jewellery and a rose I'd kept from valentines day.
    I feel like I should want to never see any of this stuff again, but it really doesn't bother me. I've worn the clothes and hugged the teddy since the break up, and it hasn't hurt at all.
    If they do remind me of my ex, I just think "that was a happy time but now its over". is that normal this soon after a break up, or do you think I'm in denial or something?
    this was my first long term relationship with all this kinda stuff after a break up, so just hoping for some advice from someone with experience!


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  • #2
    Kooli
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,312 ✭✭✭Kooli


    Totally normal and healthy I say! No harm in some nice reminders. The only time you would want to never see them again is if it was a really nasty break up, but if you feel positive towards seeing these things and having nice memories, then no harm to anyone.


  • #3
    VaioCruiser
    Closed Accounts Posts: 750 ✭✭✭VaioCruiser


    You are just proving how well balanced and healthy you are, and how well you are dealing with it. Congratulations.

    All the best


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