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alone & confused

  • 01-09-2009 4:44pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I am in need of a little advice if someone wouldnt mind helping me?

    Recently a so-called friend told another something that I supposedly said, but never did. The whole thing blew up into this really abusive and angry confrontation via text but never in person. I was never given chance to explain a thing nor did either person want to hear a word I said. We all share the same circle of friends and now I am completely outcast. So much so that I havent been out in over 3weeks and the only contact I have now with them is at work.

    I just feel so upset at the thought that my good name was tarnished; that I now have no friends left to go out for a few bevies with; that I am left so out in the cold that I just feel depressed and miserable.

    How do I even go about rectifying this after this length of time when they won't even talk to me?
    How do I actually find new friends? I just feel so lost and confused that I just don;t even know where to begin.


Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,145 ✭✭✭SarahSassy


    Send him or her a letter explaining your position. Have you spoken with the source of the problem - what did your 'ex-friend' say about their motivation for stirring.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 25 dreadlocks


    Letter is a good option but surely you can have some private moment with this person especially if ye work in the same place. Getting to know other people at work or joining clubs is another way to gain a new set of friends who mightn't be so quick to ditch you in future


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