Should I just forget about him?

LegacyUser

I met a guy almost two years ago and we started seeing each other but it only lasted a few weeks. We got on very well and enjoyed each others company. When we got together initially I wasn’t overly mad about him but I generally tend to hold back when a guy shows real or even vague interest in me even I feel the same about him – silly I know. Anyways, a friend of mine recently bumped into him on a night out and he asked for my number as he had lost it but she didn’t give it to him. She told me this story and so I decided to make the first move and get in contact with him myself for the first time in the two years as I still had his number. He responded very well but left it very vague saying he might see me “sometime” yet no word back since. This guy has always been at the back of my mind all this time and since he expressed his feelings about me to my friend recently saying he was silly to have called it off etc, I can’t seem to get him out of my head. I’ve always thought about what could have been between us even though we only went out for a short time and I regret not appreciating him enough when we were going out but worst of all I really regret letting him slip away from me.

I wonder am I just deluding myself that something could possibly happen between us now, given that we both have probably changed in different ways over this time and also given that I might never hear from or see him again. All the same I just cannot stop thinking about him at all – what should I do?????? Thanks

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He may be a little wary about getting involved with you again if it was you who let things lapse two years ago. But what have you got to lose by calling him and seeing if he wants to go for a drink or something?
If you can't stop thinking about him, you won't be happy until you've at least tried. Good luck.