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Lonely

  • 01-09-2009 12:50pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi,
    I've been alone a long time and I just feel real lonely.

    Saw a girl lately for a month or two and it really helped but now its a bit hopeless I'm on my own again. I can't take going home alone every evening and going out alone, going to town alone, going everywhere alone, watching tv alone every day.

    I can't see whats so wrong with me. I need to meet someone or find some sort of relief for loneliness, I feel like I'm cracking up.


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  • #2
    tbh
    Closed Accounts Posts: 15,914 ✭✭✭✭tbh


    what kind of stuff are you into?


  • #3
    gerTheGreat
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 871 ✭✭✭gerTheGreat


    To expand on the above post. Do you have any hobbies or interests? Are there any groups or clubs that you could join? If not, why not try joining one? You may meet some interesting or fun people and at the very least, it's a bit of social interaction which may help aleviate the loneliness.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I don't know what to join and I hate going to classes and stuff alone and not knowing what going on.

    Worse is that even though it might be normal I end up going to "guy" activities and this isn't really much good.

    I wanna stop being lonely, I just want to meet someone to see sometimes.


  • #5
    LadyMayBelle
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,105 ✭✭✭LadyMayBelle


    Can you remember back to a time when you didn't feel so alone? What type of things did you do that you don't do now?

    If you cannot remember a time when you never felt alone, try and think of something new you might like to do, a hobby, a sport or some social activity that gets you out and about meeting people.

    Have you ever seen someone doing something and thought 'I'd love to try that'. Give it a go. you can do it.


  • #6
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    What happened with the girl you were seeing? Do you have many friends who you can spend time with?


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  • #7
    chuckles30
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,380 ✭✭✭chuckles30


    You could try signing up for some dance classes in your area. There should be lots of them starting up now in the next month or so & there's always a dire shortage of men!!! You get to get out and meet new people and have a bit of fun.....and learn to dance at the same time....or learn a new dance if you already know some. Also by joining up this time of the year there will be lots of new people doing it, so you won't feel out of the loop.


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