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Should I contact him?

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  • 30-08-2009 3:27pm
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    LegacyUser
    Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi there,

    I met this really nice guy (well he seemed really nice) on an online dating site about a year ago. We emailed for a while and he gave me his personal email and phone number and told me he was leaving the site. Between one thing and another I didn't get in contact for a while and when I went back onto the site to get this details the messages were automatically deleted. I did however have his phone number written down which I recently found. I would much rather email but that is not an option. I only shared about 10 emails with this guy. This was about a year ago. Should I get in contact via phone? if so what would i say?


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    Bottle_of_Smoke
    Registered Users Posts: 9,770 ✭✭✭Bottle_of_Smoke


    if you know his real name look him up on facebook.

    If texting I'd make a joke about how random it is you texting him and a bit of chit-chat, seen how he responds.

    Nothing to lose.


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    star-pants
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,429 ✭✭✭✭star-pants


    +1 to Bottle of Smoke -- you could always say you stumbled across the number and thought why not say hi


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    nesbitt
    Registered Users Posts: 486 ✭✭nesbitt


    If it is a mobile number you have, why not dial to go direct to his voice mail, that way you can leave a friendly message saying you found his number recently and wondered would he like to get in touch again...


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    SarahSassy
    Registered Users Posts: 3,145 ✭✭✭SarahSassy


    Send a text to his number 'by accident'....


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