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My Friend won't speak to me and I have not done anything wrong

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  • 28-08-2009 7:58pm
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    LegacyUser
    Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    My friend who is a girl (me a lad) has recently decided that she does not want to speak to me and I am at my wits end about what to do about it. Basically the two of us have had history bit have remained friends which has been difficult but worthwhile as we "got" on so well. I respect her alot as a person and have always been there for her in the past whenever she was in trouble and tried to be as accommodating as possible.

    Recently however she has been unresponsive towards my txt messages and essentially shut me out. I dont understand why?? We recently went away together and had a lovely time and I had not spoken to her in a number of weeks after this as she was not in the country. Anyhow she got back and I sent her a txt, no reply, sent another and still no reply!!! I am writing this out of concern more than anything else as I just want to make sure she is alright as she is a much more fragile person then many are led to believe!! Maybe she met someone away, maybe she just doesn't want to be friends!! Who knows?? Any advice would be helpful??


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    #2
    SarahSassy
    Registered Users Posts: 3,145 ✭✭✭SarahSassy


    The advice is to stop texting and go call her. Maybe she has no credit...


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    #3
    Taltos
    Registered Users Posts: 20,830 ✭✭✭✭Taltos


    Paddy.

    you might have to face facts that she might not want to talk to you anymore.
    Maybe this holiday opened her eyes and she figures she is better off without you.

    As to calling her - should have done that after the 2nd text. But if you have been sending loads of texts she might already be considering what you are doing as harrassment.

    Not trying to ruin your day - but something you need to think about. ie If you call her and she does not want to talk - take the hint and walk away with your pride intact.


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