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what do do?am i going crazy

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  • 27-08-2009 5:42pm
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    LegacyUser
    Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    am feeling in the same boat too this past few weeks/months. My OH is creating a distance between us, we have not slept together, kissed properly or even had a slight bit of intimacy in some weeks. I told him recently that I felt this was not good enough, having a co-habiting relationship and nothing more. He uses this website which is full of weirdos writing disturbing things,maybe thats a guy thing...I grew up with a lot of lads, and I have never read such disturbing things...whats worse is he says he does it because he is bored(he is unemployed at the moment). To be honest a friend of mine who is male, read these posts and believes it to be quite disturbing..I suggested that we take a break, he said "fine" and went home, he has come back since but we sat down and spoke about things, he accused me of going through his emails-I will be totally honest with ye on this, he left his emails open and i saw that an ex of his had sent him a message-I didnt read it as I felt if I did it would only make matters worse.he has gotten so paranoid that he has gone and changed his name on this open website and still talks in a sickly manner on it..I don't know what to do, he never wants me to go out and socialise with him,he says he wants to go out with his own friends on his own(of which I am totally fine with) but we never go out together-never! I know this is all over the place, but I am all over the place because I don't know why he has been acting like this....
    He was out one night, as was I but I was with friends. He called me ****faced and proceeded to call me names(of which i refuse to repeat) I walked home from the city at 3am on my own as I was so humiliated by the way he had publicly verbally abused me....I love him, but I just dont feel that he is the same guy I fell in love with. Genuinely not the same guy I met and fell head over heels in love with. We are together more then 3 years..Is he seeing someone else, sick of this relationship or just bored with his life? Please help me as He will not talk to me


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    Silverfish
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 16,696 Mod ✭✭✭✭Silverfish


    OP, I have split your post from another thread, so you can get responses directed to you.


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    LegacyUser
    Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    he's cheating, walk away!!


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    Lady Muck
    Closed Accounts Posts: 58 ✭✭Lady Muck


    Personally I would have read the email although I know a lot of people would shout at me for that but it could be an innocent hi how are you doing, or it could be something much worse. The only way to find out is to speak to him.

    You have nothing to lose, he isn't giving you anything to keep you there anyway.

    Good luck.


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