need lads advice/opinion

LegacyUser

ok lads, am going unreg for this for obvious reasons

twice recently i have slept with this guy i like.

he's 40

both nights involved a lot of alcohol - im talking maybe 12 or 14 drinks on his part

we had sex both nights, ie he got it up and kept it up, but he didnt cum either night

i feel awful over this

im guessing he thinks im crap in bed and couldnt make him cum

maybe its alcohol related though? i dont know?

if he didnt like how i was the first night, why did he shag me again?

this is just going to be casual sex with him, nothing more, and im 100% ok with that, but that also means im not gonna get into conversations with him about why he didnt cum.

maybe hes morto too? i dunno.

any advice or reassurance would be really welcome!

QOTSA90

Youre grand, hes just had a few too many.

Why did noone ever answer this question.. poor girl :pac:

Pacha

I'm a 44 yr old guy and it happens to me more and more as I get older.
Nothing to do with drink, attraction or sexual skills though.
For me it all comes down to my thoughts.
If I manage to stay in the moment with I'm fine but the second I start thinking about what a complicated mess my life has become its all over. :rolleyes:


probably guilt on his part by the way

OldGoat

The poster is annoyimus to me so I can't PM you.

There are many reason why he might not have been on top of his game.
As we men get older we do have these difficulties more frequently.
It could be due to alcohol.
It could be due to stress - including performance anxioty directly related to being with a younger woman.

If you need more clarification please post in Personal issues.

If anyone wished to start a new thread on erectile dysfunction here then please do so.

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