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Should we break up?

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  • 25-08-2009 2:58pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi all,Im a 21 year old male and have been with my girlfriend for 3 months,this is my 1st relationship and the thing is Im not really feeling it. The girl is goodlooking,smart etc pretty much everything i look for in a girl but i just feel trapped. This has happened before when girls had suggested becoming a couple i would instantly feel trapped for no reason. My current girlfriend is very understanding and we only see each other around once a week but it still feels like effort and i dont really miss her at all,i just rather being on my own. My family think she is lovely as do I but i just cant understand why i dont feel more?When we are together i do enjoy myself and all but its just i rarely feel like it. At this stage im feeling pretty guilty and wondering if it is for the best to break up but the thing is I honestly could see a future with her but not right now?If i break up with her she might never speak to me again but if i dont am i risking me being unhappy. Like it feels like if i break up with her it will be a weight off my shoulders but i dont understand why because she is perfect. I dont want to hurt her either. Is it that im just too young?Am i just a bad person?Should we break up?I really am stuck and i dont know what to do for the best...any advice would be really appreciated.thanks.


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    #2
    VaioCruiser
    Closed Accounts Posts: 750 ✭✭✭VaioCruiser


    Trapped before ... and after 3 months...

    Please do her a favour and let her go and move on.

    You are simply not ready for a relationship. It's nothing to do with good or bad. It's about not ready.

    All the best


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    lolli
    Registered Users Posts: 1,173 ✭✭✭lolli


    I agree with the others you just aren't ready for a relationship.


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