Will it be really awkard??

LegacyUser

Ok basically I went to my friends birthday a few nights ago and he said bring a friend, which I did, 1 of my best female friends (i'm a guy). Anyway after the party at about 3am, a few of us all went back to one of the lads houses to just relax and hang out. Myself and my date were feelin really tired and went to another room and found a couch and crashed there for a while. I dunno was it the drink or what but soon enough we started kissin and one thing led to another and she was givin me a hand job before I knew it! Then a blowie! Then we had to finish up cause people started lookin for us....
Anyway she left a while after that to go home and then the next day I txt here jus askin did she enjoy last night etc and she jus said "yeah it was good"! I haven't actually seen here since and I worried then next time I do see her it will be awkard between us cause I won't know should I just pretend nothing happened, jus laugh and say we both had a bit to much or should we talk about it??

I jus don't want things to be weird between us cause she is one of my best friends and it'd kill me to loose her!

Any1 gone through this or have any suggestions?

Fiend-Foe

Just tell her you don't want things to be awkward between you and ask her if she wants to talk about it or just leave it.

wylo

Ive been in that exact situation, it was surprisingly not awkward, once you get passed the first 5 minute hurdle everything goes back to normal. Just dont be awkward yourself, have a laugh like you usually would. Im not sure about asking her if she wants to talk about it, your choice i guess you know her better.

Anna Molly

It'll only be awkward if you make it awkward.

Overheal

Anna Molly wrote: »

It'll only be awkward if you make it awkward.

Basically.

If you get fixated on it, its only going to make you feel awkward, unusual - or - pushy, and horny. Either way, you need to relax yourself and get back to the hanging out thing.

Even if she wants more, you have to figure, theres more to relationships than fooling around. It shouldn't upset you being friends, whether it was a one time soiree or it becomes a regular thing.

castle

I think maybe you guys should be Shag Buddy's,you both wanted fun so no harm done, be the man ring her up and say hello

Firetrap

I think play it by ear. It might be better to say nothing and act as normal. Some people like to talk about these things but others just don't want to go there. If you get an inkling that it needs to be discussed, well discuss it.