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Gf Likes watching lesbian porn

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  • 19-08-2009 11:48am
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    Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    hi
    last week me and my gf were watching soom porn and she decided to watch some lesbian porn and loved it, then just last night we decided to watch porn again, and she decided that she just wanted to watch lesbian porn as it made her xxxney.
    should this be something to worry about or just something normal for girls
    cheers


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  • Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Going unreg for this!
    I'm a woman and love watching it. I would never want to be with a woman sexually but watching it does something for me-I don't know why but it does. I was a bit embaressed until the subject came up over cocktails with the girls (such a cliche!!) and we all said we watched it and got a kick out of us, while at the same time never wanting to "act on it" in real life.
    In short, OP you have nothing to worry about. It's just one aspect of a healthy sex life and at least you know how she gets off!


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,571 ✭✭✭herya


    I wouldn't be too concerned - perhaps she's just bored of the mindless pumping in hetero porn and is looking for something slightly more inventive. Appreciate that you watch the stuff together, how many gfs would flip at the mere thought!


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,548 ✭✭✭squonk


    Sounds like a win-win situation you have there! Seriously though, perhaps she's bi-curious or even bi-sexual? Maybe discuss it with her. Take it handy though, it might not be something she would be ready to face up to so don't just bail in.


  • Registered Users Posts: 5,883 ✭✭✭shellyboo


    Perfectly normal for girls I'd say... from what I've heard from other girls (and myself) porn is more an imaginative tool... we're more imagining ourselves in the situation than wathcing it, per se. And lesbian porn just has a bit more variety than your standard blowjob-intercourse-change position-and another position-cumshot hetero porn.


  • Hosted Moderators Posts: 10,661 ✭✭✭✭John Mason


    completely normal, nothing to worry about

    mens bits arent the most attractive things to look at much better to watch fit women


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  • Registered Users Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    herya wrote: »
    ...perhaps she's just bored of the mindless pumping in hetero porn and is looking for something slightly more inventive..

    From my own, fairly limited I admit, experience lesbian porn is even more mindless..:confused:..

    Anywho it's not something I'd be into personally. If it is making you worry or even comes up in your mind, which obviously it does - you're posting here, then you need to discuss it with her, or it will just begin to eat away at you. Just talk to her about it. Communicate.


  • Registered Users Posts: 137 ✭✭Annie Bananie


    Im a girl, I watch it, does not mean Im lesbian :eek:
    Dont worry about it, I find it very normal :p :rolleyes:


  • Users Awaiting Email Confirmation Posts: 827 ✭✭✭Phlann


    A girl I was seeing a while ago was into it too. Although she doesn't know that I know that, I was fixing her laptop and accidentally stumbled across some vids (and yes, it genuinely was an accident!).

    If I had to guess I'd say girls like it because it's less brutal and clinical than straight porn...


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,143 ✭✭✭Katgurl


    yeah wouldnt' worry, fairly normal


  • Registered Users Posts: 13,713 ✭✭✭✭Novella


    Wouldn't think that's anything to worry about at all. I'd be partial to some lesbian porn myself but have no interest in actually ever being with a woman. I don't watch porn and aspire to do what's happening in it, it's just kinda like a nice, wee fantasy for me. I don't think it means she's bored with your sex life either. Did someone suggest that? Maybe I just made that up but yeah, I watch lesbian porn but am still perfectly fulfilled by sex with a guy. So not to worry :)


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,821 ✭✭✭useful_contacts


    hi
    last week me and my gf were watching soom porn and she decided to watch some lesbian porn and loved it, then just last night we decided to watch porn again, and she decided that she just wanted to watch lesbian porn as it made her xxxney.
    should this be something to worry about or just something normal for girls
    cheers

    im a woman, and i love it. doesnt change my relationship with my fiance. Heard a quote "women know how women want to be touched" and its true. Sometimes with men its just stright down to it and **** what women like. with lesbian stuff its all about what women want and sometimes a woman needs to be reminded of that.

    If i was you id watch it and get some tips


  • Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Perfectly normal I'd say. I'm a gay girl yet I would only watch "straight" porn. For some reason watching two women does absolutely nothing for me, so I imagine the same situation could easily be reversed! Porn is all about fantasy anyway, not reality and I think the buzz comes from watching something different that you wouldn't be into yourself, but that is quite sexy anyway.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 253 ✭✭Special K


    shellyboo wrote: »
    Perfectly normal for girls I'd say... from what I've heard from other girls (and myself) porn is more an imaginative tool... we're more imagining ourselves in the situation than wathcing it, per se. And lesbian porn just has a bit more variety than your standard blowjob-intercourse-change position-and another position-cumshot hetero porn.
    Hit the nail on the head! Exactly what I think also!


  • Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    im a straight guy and sometimes I watch gay porn, no intention of action on it. Just different.
    I went out with a girl and I was checking her router status in firefox and I typed in 192 (as in start of router address) and the next thing I saw was hot chick masturbating. I think everyone is technically bisexual anyway and its just society that puts us into these groups. Back in the old days it was quite common for both genders to be boning each other.


  • Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I am a lesbian and I don't really watch lesbian porn, I tend to lean more towards the hetero stuff though I have no desire to sleep with a man. I love my sexy time with my gf. So I reckon its all good and nothing to worry about.


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