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How do I cool it down?

  • 16-08-2009 4:28pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I've gotten close to someone recently and it's been incredibly intense. I've never felt this way about someone ever before. But I fear because it has started so well that I could never live up to the standard I've set. The problem is that before I could do this, go along with it and live it down but this time I fear living it down will mean losing this person. What's the best way of cooling it down? If I don't cool it down I know it's a car going 90 into a brick wall and will end in tears.


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  • #2
    VaioCruiser
    Closed Accounts Posts: 750 ✭✭✭VaioCruiser


    Hi OP ... you might start with re-reading and re-writing your post ... I have no idea what you are trying to say ... :confused:


  • #3
    Coffee Addict
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27 ✭Coffee Addict


    Hi
    I know what you are saying.
    You need to be honest with the person & I mean totally honest.
    If you love them tell them you love them but you think that things are moving too fast, but that this does not mean you want to lose them or change things you just want to enjoy the time you have now, stop & smell the roses so to speak.
    As long as you have not been leading them on they should be ok about it, even if a little annoyed at first.
    Be patient, let them be annoyed if it is warranted, but if you love them make sure they know.
    I know its a cliche but a romantic gesture eg flowers to say I love you & want you & us could make a world of difference.
    Best of luck, I hope they understand!


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